1.      How is your thought life?

      •Have you been thinking of any of the pornography you have viewed in the past? How have you dealt with that?

      •Have you had any sexual fantasies or dreams this past week? About whom?

How did you deal with that?  

 

2.      Have you viewed any pornography since we last met? 

•What Internet websites have you visited in the past week? Name them for me

•What videos have you seen in the past week? Name them for me

            •What movies have you seen in the past week? Name them for me

            •What cable/satellite TV have you seen in the past week? Name the programs for

me

            •What magazines, comics have you read in the past week? Name them for me

            •Have you been looking through any women’s clothing magazines (Victoria’s

Secret, etc.)?

            •What books have you read? Name them for me

            •Have you downloaded any pornography from the Internet?

            •What CD/tapes have you listened to? Name them for me

            •Have you been in a chat room to talk sex with someone?

            •Have you received any sexual or sexually solicitous emails? From whom?

 

3.      Have you been in any adult bookstores this past week?

      •Have you been in any adult video sections in any other stores this past week?

 

4.      Have you engaged in any telephone sex this past week? 

      •Have you dialed any dial-a-porn telephone numbers?

 

5.      Have you caught yourself looking at women’s breasts, buttocks, genital areas this past week?

 

6.      Have you engaged in any sexual behavior with anyone other than your wife this past week?

 

7.      When did you last masturbate?

      •Are you taking short showers? (adapt to asking about wherever partner

masturbates)

 

8.      If married, have you consciously or unconsciously touched a woman other than your wife?

 

9.      If married, have you told your wife of your struggles with pornography and made her a partner in your quest for purity?

      •Is she praying for you daily?

 

10. Are you fleeing sexual temptation?

      •Are you praying for yourself?

 

11. If you traveled this past week and stayed overnight, did you ask them to turn off the cable TV and the movies in your hotel room?

 

12. If married, did you call your wife and pray with her each night while you were staying in the hotel room?

 

13. If married, did you set out your wife and children’s photograph on the nightstand while you were staying in the hotel room?

 

14. Have you solicited or permitted yourself to be solicited by a prostitute or a call girl this week?

 

15. Have you made contact or been contacted by an ex-wife, girlfriend this week?

 

16. Have you engaged in any perverted or aberrant sexual behavior this past week?

      •With your wife?

      •By yourself?

 

17. Have you cleansed your home of the following:

      •Internet?

      •Cable/Satellite TV?

      •Pornographic magazines, videos, books, comics, tapes?

•Erotica: art work, statues, figurines, etc.

 

18. Have you found any pornographic literature on the street? In a garbage can? Has it found you?

 

19. Have you been browsing the airport, hotel, drugstore, or any magazine racks looking for pornography?

      •What covers of magazines were you staring at? Name them

 

20. Have you registered at www.covenanteyes.com? Who are your accountability partners?

 

21. Have you received a Freedom Appointment?

•When is your platoon Freedom Appointment scheduled?

 

22. What have you read in the Bible this past week? 

            •When did you last have a personal quiet time? Tell me about what you read and

what God taught you.

 

23. What have you memorized from the Bible this past week? Please quote it for me if you can

 

24. For whom are you praying? 

      •Who are you praying to witness to? 

      •With whom have you shared your faith lately?

 

25. Have you lied, deceived me in any way, or neglected to tell me something? About what?